A little guide to Temples and Shrines
Just imagine this: You’re strolling along the streets of some Japanese town at dusk. As usual, the streets are narrow, framed by houses that stand unreasonably close together and once in a while in the gaps between them you get a glimpse of the blooming hydrangea, the ultimate herald of summer. The crickets are humming their tune, and even though it is 梅雨 (tsuyu) , the time of the plum rain, it has decided to stop for some time. The light is still there, but ever so slightly disappearing. You turn a corner and find a huge gate in front of you. It might be wooden or made of stone. In full light it would probably be bright red, but now, its color seems slightly deeper. And you can’t help but wonder what lies beyond. Should you venture forth?
The Dos
Short Summary of the Dos
- Be respectful
- Clean Your Hands and Mouth (Mostly at Shrines, but sometimes at temples, too)
- Pray: Throw coin, bow, clap (Shinto), pray, bow
Be Respectful
Just be respectful. Things you wouldn’t do in a church or your chosen place of worship? Don’t do them here either. Don’t scream too loudly or run around like crazy. Also, if you can, don’t wear clothes that are too revealing and take your hat off if you’re entering a buddhist temple.
Another aspect of respect is bowing before entering through a torii gate and when leaving. The torii actually has an important symbolic meaning. It represents the transition from our world to another. Normally, you bow towards the honden (本殿 ; meaning the main hall, where the God is enshrined), so basically towards the inside of a shrine. Once again, entering a shrine means entering the realm of a God, it would be impolite not to greet them. Also, this does not apply to Buddhist temples. I like to lower my head a bit when entering through the first main gate, but that might just be me.
Clean Your Hands and Mouth (Mostly at Shrines, but sometimes at temples, too)
Most shrines have a fountain (手水舎 temizuya) near the entrance. They are used to help you purify yourself before entering, because the concept of purity is very important in Shinto, in general. It is also considered impure to enter shrines with open wounds or while on your period.
For more popular ones there usually are instructions, so you don’t even fully have to remember the correct order and such. There’s usually a ladle, putting in your hands directly into the fountain’s a no-no. However in case there aren’t, (and there’s no one to ask or watch) here you go:
- Scoop or collect water with the ladle in your (right?) hand.
- Pour it over your left hand. Do the same thing for your left hand.
- Rinse your mouth using your now clean (left?) hand. Spit out the water. (Obviously not into the fountain)
- Rinse your left hand again. Put the ladle back.
- Yay, you’re clean!
Side Note: I’m not too sure if it is a requirement to do left, right, left, but the left side is usually considered the superior one.
Praying
Praying is slightly different for shrines and temples. For both you will find an offering box to throw coins into.:
A) Shrines
Throw a coin into the offering box (either a 1 or 5 yen, 5 is considered especially lucky).
I actually wrote a little thing about that, too: The Meaning of Numbers in Japan
Bow deeply twice.
Now, clap your hands twice or, if there is one, ring a bell. This is done to wake up those kami, otherwise how are they supposed to hear your prayers or wishes?
Make your wish or pray (keeping your hands folded).
Then, to say goodbye, you bow once more. With a bit of luck, maybe your wishes will be fulfilled.
B) Temples
When entering don’t step on the threshold. enter left foot first as a man
You’re actually not supposed to clap at temples (maybe buddhist gods don’t need to be woken up?), but my friend told me a lot of Japanese people don’t know that either so they just do it anyways.
Put a coin in the offering box.
Bow your head and pray silently.
I do see most people bow after they have finished praying, but I’m not too sure it’s a requirement.

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The Don’ts
Short Summary of the Don’ts
- Don’t Walk in the Middle
- Don’t Take Pictures of, or Touch Things
- Don’t Eat, Smoke, or Talk Loudly
- Don’t Enter Shrines at Night
Don’t walk in the middle of the road in a shrine (the one with the Torii)
I see people do this all the time. And, I get it. It’s tempting to walk in the middle, especially if it’s a bigger shrine with a nice, wide road. However, you’re not supposed to walk there. Only Gods do. Very simple.
The next two kind of fall under common sense/ would you do it in your own place of worship territory, but I’ll still write them down in case:
Don’t take pictures of, or touch things you’re not supposed to
Sometimes taking pictures, especially of inner sanctuaries, is not allowed, but there tend to be signs if that’s the case. If there aren’t, once again, look around you. What are other people doing?
On the same note, don’t touch things that don’t seem like they should be touched and don’t enter off-limits areas. Common sense.
Don’t Eat, Smoke, or Talk Loudly
Self explanatory.
Don’t enter shrines at night
Other than the obvious danger of tripping at night or encountering animals.
Why you shouldn’t visit shrines at night (and other superstitions)
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